In Powell River, British Columbia, Lana Cullis shares a personal experience on a snowy November day. She and her daughter Kit were dividing tree ornaments, each taking their share. Kit, now living independently, wanted to decorate her own Christmas tree. Unpacking the decorations brought back memories of past losses and grief for Lana, as they had fostered 23 children over eight years.

The ornaments held sentimental value, with Kit recalling the stories behind each handmade piece. Lana uncovered a tree topper received during her first Christmas with her husband, now broken but held together with Krazy Glue. Passing it to Kit, Lana was surprised by her daughter’s excitement to have it. Memories intertwined as they shared stories and laughter.

Among the decorations was a Santa sleigh and reindeer ornament made by an eight-year-old foster child years ago. Lana felt a mix of emotions, reminiscing about the boy and the court’s decision that separated them. Kit, sensing her mother’s feelings, took the ornament and fondly remembered playing with it as a child.

Reflecting on their family traditions, Lana recalled how they made Christmas inclusive for their foster children by adjusting their celebrations to accommodate the children’s needs. They created a tradition of giving each child a unique ornament, symbolizing their time together. This gesture allowed the Santa and reindeer ornament to remain part of Lana’s collection.

Another reindeer ornament made from pompoms brought back memories of dividing ornaments during Lana’s divorce years ago. Despite the challenges, Lana and her ex-husband ensured fairness in sharing the decorations. Kit’s appreciation for Rudolph symbolized the enduring presence of love and stability in her life.

As they decorated the tree together, Lana realized that Kit’s perspective and joy were transforming the experience. Looking forward to seeing Kit’s tree adorned with memories, Lana embraced the new chapter with optimism and gratitude.